I’m proud of any girl who can finally put down the guy who doesn’t make them happy and take whats really good for them. They always complain about how they fall for douchebags, well its your fault for doing so and not getting out of it. You have to think about yourself before thinking about someone else. Happiness shouldn’t come from another person, You need to make yourself happy. & I think that if both people that are in the relationship are doing that & are both happy with whats going on then they will have the strongest bond, healthiest relationship, and be the happiest. You ladies need to get up and do something about it, get out of your comfort zone, ask yourself what you do and don’t want, then finally just accept it when you do have it. For those of you who have realized that, I applaud you because its obviously a hard thing to do.